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		<title>By: joel</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2008 18:51:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Industry - Week 6 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Industry - Week 6 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Week 01 - Temperance [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Justice - Week 8 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Justice - Week 8 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:36:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Moderation - Week 9 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:35:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Week 01 - Temperance [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Chastity - Week 12 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Chastity - Week 12 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:30:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Cleanliness - Week 10 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Cleanliness - Week 10 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2007 02:19:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Frugality - Week 5 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Frugality - Week 5 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2007 17:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Sincerity - Week 7 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Sincerity - Week 7 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2007 17:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2007 12:11:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A short response to a long comment. Deep! I&#039;ve never done any type of tarot card reading before. Maybe you can do it for me, and see if the fool really does have temperance! =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A short response to a long comment. Deep! I&#8217;ve never done any type of tarot card reading before. Maybe you can do it for me, and see if the fool really does have temperance! =)</p>
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		<title>By: Kara-Leah Masina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kara-Leah Masina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2007 01:44:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Temperance is of course one of the Major Arcana cards, and usually features a picture of a woman (often an angel) pouring one cup into another.  

The major arcana is a journey that begins with the Fool, a young innocent off on a big adventure. Every card represents something along the journey. When the Fool comes in contact with Temperance, he learns about moderation, but also about alchemy and the union of opposites.

In some tarot, the water is mixed with fire - as in this beautiful description of the Fool&#039;s encounter with Temperance.

&quot;&quot;How can you mix fire and water?&quot; the Fool finally whispers. 
Never pausing the Angel answers, &quot;You must have the right vessels and the right proportions.&quot; 
The Fool watches with wonder. &quot;Can this be done with all opposites?&quot; he asks. 
&quot;Indeed,&quot; the Angel replies, &quot;Any oppositions, fire and water, man and woman, thesis and anti-thesis, can be made to harmonize. It is only a lack of will, a disbelief in the possibility of unity, that keeps opposites, opposite.&quot; 
And that is when the Fool begins to understand that he is the one who is keeping his universe in twain, holding life/death, material world and spiritual world separate. In him, the two could merge, as in the vessels that the Angel uses to pour the elements, one to the other. All it takes, the Fool realizes, is the right proportions....and the right vessel.&quot;
So temperance becomes the idea of seeking balance and union...
Just another way to look at it.

Much joy,
Kara-Leah</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Temperance is of course one of the Major Arcana cards, and usually features a picture of a woman (often an angel) pouring one cup into another.  </p>
<p>The major arcana is a journey that begins with the Fool, a young innocent off on a big adventure. Every card represents something along the journey. When the Fool comes in contact with Temperance, he learns about moderation, but also about alchemy and the union of opposites.</p>
<p>In some tarot, the water is mixed with fire &#8211; as in this beautiful description of the Fool&#8217;s encounter with Temperance.</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8221;How can you mix fire and water?&#8221; the Fool finally whispers.<br />
Never pausing the Angel answers, &#8220;You must have the right vessels and the right proportions.&#8221;<br />
The Fool watches with wonder. &#8220;Can this be done with all opposites?&#8221; he asks.<br />
&#8220;Indeed,&#8221; the Angel replies, &#8220;Any oppositions, fire and water, man and woman, thesis and anti-thesis, can be made to harmonize. It is only a lack of will, a disbelief in the possibility of unity, that keeps opposites, opposite.&#8221;<br />
And that is when the Fool begins to understand that he is the one who is keeping his universe in twain, holding life/death, material world and spiritual world separate. In him, the two could merge, as in the vessels that the Angel uses to pour the elements, one to the other. All it takes, the Fool realizes, is the right proportions&#8230;.and the right vessel.&#8221;<br />
So temperance becomes the idea of seeking balance and union&#8230;<br />
Just another way to look at it.</p>
<p>Much joy,<br />
Kara-Leah</p>
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		<title>By: Brian Lee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2007 23:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is my favorite virtue so far!  This is a great series that you are doing.</description>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Order - Week 3 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Order - Week 3 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2007 14:08:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2007 15:31:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m sure if you are determined you will find a way to get very good at temperance. Let me know if you have any questions.</description>
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		<title>By: Culture Shiok!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Culture Shiok!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2007 14:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To be honest, I&#039;m not so good at this temperance thing</description>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Silence - Week 2 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Mar 2007 22:48:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Self Improvement and Law of Attraction Link Love, Volume 4 : Today is that Day</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/02/27/becoming-an-outstanding-person-temperance-week-1-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-168</link>
		<dc:creator>Self Improvement and Law of Attraction Link Love, Volume 4 : Today is that Day</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Mar 2007 17:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 3) Practical Personal Development - Alex Shalman has started a great series of posts, and if this edition, &#8216;Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Temperance&#8216;, is any indication, this will be a series worth tracking. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Aaron M. Potts</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron M. Potts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 00:32:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a great way to look at it, Alex! A very apt description of how the process works once someone gets their motor running properly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a great way to look at it, Alex! A very apt description of how the process works once someone gets their motor running properly.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 20:53:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aaron,

It&#039;s always about habits, I&#039;m starting to wonder if full days can be &quot;automated&quot;. I&#039;m thinking will-power is the ignition and habit is the motor. If you don&#039;t turn off the motor, you never really need the ignition but once.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aaron,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s always about habits, I&#8217;m starting to wonder if full days can be &#8220;automated&#8221;. I&#8217;m thinking will-power is the ignition and habit is the motor. If you don&#8217;t turn off the motor, you never really need the ignition but once.</p>
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		<title>By: Aaron M. Potts</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/02/27/becoming-an-outstanding-person-temperance-week-1-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-121</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron M. Potts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 19:37:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex,

Great points about temperance with food and alcohol. I enjoy both as much as the next person, but I have also found that it is a lot easier than people think to control their consumption. 

It is a matter of eating and drinking HABITS. Abstaining or over-indulging once in awhile will not make or break you, but the consistent application of those concepts will cause great benefit or distress over the long-term.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex,</p>
<p>Great points about temperance with food and alcohol. I enjoy both as much as the next person, but I have also found that it is a lot easier than people think to control their consumption. </p>
<p>It is a matter of eating and drinking HABITS. Abstaining or over-indulging once in awhile will not make or break you, but the consistent application of those concepts will cause great benefit or distress over the long-term.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 15:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Steven, if it doesn&#039;t kill me it&#039;ll make me stronger ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Steven, if it doesn&#8217;t kill me it&#8217;ll make me stronger <img src='http://www.alexshalman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Steven Aitchison</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/02/27/becoming-an-outstanding-person-temperance-week-1-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-115</link>
		<dc:creator>Steven Aitchison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 06:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This looks to be a good plan Alex.  I am looking forward to hear how it goes for the next 12 weeks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This looks to be a good plan Alex.  I am looking forward to hear how it goes for the next 12 weeks.</p>
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		<title>By: Alan</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/02/27/becoming-an-outstanding-person-temperance-week-1-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-114</link>
		<dc:creator>Alan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 04:42:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Alex!  Happy to take the trip with you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Alex!  Happy to take the trip with you!</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/02/27/becoming-an-outstanding-person-temperance-week-1-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-113</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 04:38:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Glad to have you on board for this series Alan, and I&#039;m glad you&#039;re going to take this up, it can&#039;t hurt!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glad to have you on board for this series Alan, and I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re going to take this up, it can&#8217;t hurt!</p>
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		<title>By: Alan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 04:29:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree, the &quot;Temperance phase&quot; would probably be the easier one of all twelve in the program.  I am looking forward to seeing the rest of this and plan to work on some of this myself!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree, the &#8220;Temperance phase&#8221; would probably be the easier one of all twelve in the program.  I am looking forward to seeing the rest of this and plan to work on some of this myself!</p>
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		<title>By: How To Become An Outstanding Person In Twelve Weeks &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/02/27/becoming-an-outstanding-person-temperance-week-1-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-110</link>
		<dc:creator>How To Become An Outstanding Person In Twelve Weeks &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2007 21:07:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Temperance - Week 1 of 12 &#124; [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Pamela</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/02/27/becoming-an-outstanding-person-temperance-week-1-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-107</link>
		<dc:creator>Pamela</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2007 21:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Taking things in moderation is a general rule. Too much of anything is definitely not good. Although some are better off not taken into account.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Taking things in moderation is a general rule. Too much of anything is definitely not good. Although some are better off not taken into account.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2007 16:58:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Temperance and moderation are similar in nature. That is why I applied temperance for this purpose and planned to use moderation for other activities and avoiding extremes (i.e. work all day or play all day). Good catch though!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Temperance and moderation are similar in nature. That is why I applied temperance for this purpose and planned to use moderation for other activities and avoiding extremes (i.e. work all day or play all day). Good catch though!</p>
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		<title>By: Sania Wyatt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sania Wyatt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2007 16:28:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think Temperance is not limited to ou eating habits but can also be applied to the way we spend money, the amount of time we devote to leisure and other activites that take much of out time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think Temperance is not limited to ou eating habits but can also be applied to the way we spend money, the amount of time we devote to leisure and other activites that take much of out time.</p>
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