Comments on: Becoming An Outstanding Person | Silence – Week 2 of 12 | http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/ Practical Personal Development Wed, 01 Feb 2012 10:29:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: nash http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-92622 nash Sun, 07 Dec 2008 10:17:50 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-92622 I felt really very good after reading it. I felt really very good after reading it.

]]> By: Becoming An Outstanding Person | Industry - Week 6 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-6357 Becoming An Outstanding Person | Industry - Week 6 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:41:20 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-6357 [...] Week 02 - Silence [...] [...] Week 02 – Silence [...]

]]> By: Becoming An Outstanding Person | Tranquility - Week 11 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-3782 Becoming An Outstanding Person | Tranquility - Week 11 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com Wed, 09 May 2007 02:15:11 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-3782 [...] I believe that if you ask yourself these questions, you will find that many “trifles” or “accidents” are not significant enough to warrant a response. They’re not worth the loss of temper, self-induced stress, or breaking your silence. [...] [...] I believe that if you ask yourself these questions, you will find that many “trifles” or “accidents” are not significant enough to warrant a response. They’re not worth the loss of temper, self-induced stress, or breaking your silence. [...]

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]]> By: Becoming An Outstanding Person | Order - Week 3 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-2424 Becoming An Outstanding Person | Order - Week 3 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com Tue, 17 Apr 2007 17:59:13 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-2424 [...] Week 02 - Silence [...] [...] Week 02 – Silence [...]

]]> By: Kara-Leah Masina http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-912 Kara-Leah Masina Fri, 30 Mar 2007 01:34:29 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-912 I've noticed when I'm out and about socially with people that most of the conversation does tend to focus around 'gossip' - who's doing what and what the people speaking think & feel about it. It doesn't matter whether they're discussing politicians, celebrities or friends and associates... It becomes a way to bond, to demonstrate what you believe and what's important to you, and to find out who else thinks the way you do. So as I do my best NOT to gossip, it brings up an interesting issue... how can I participate and therefore 'bond' without betraying my intentions to always com from a place of love and non-judgment? Quite the conundrum, and suggestions welcomed! Much joy, Kara-Leah I’ve noticed when I’m out and about socially with people that most of the conversation does tend to focus around ‘gossip’ – who’s doing what and what the people speaking think & feel about it. It doesn’t matter whether they’re discussing politicians, celebrities or friends and associates…

It becomes a way to bond, to demonstrate what you believe and what’s important to you, and to find out who else thinks the way you do.

So as I do my best NOT to gossip, it brings up an interesting issue… how can I participate and therefore ‘bond’ without betraying my intentions to always com from a place of love and non-judgment?

Quite the conundrum, and suggestions welcomed!

Much joy,
Kara-Leah

]]> By: Becoming An Outstanding Person | Resolution - Week 4 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-642 Becoming An Outstanding Person | Resolution - Week 4 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com Tue, 27 Mar 2007 13:55:50 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-642 [...] Week 02 - Silence [...] [...] Week 02 – Silence [...]

]]> By: Alex Shalman http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-273 Alex Shalman Wed, 14 Mar 2007 14:49:02 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-273 Do you plan on keeping up with the whole program? Do you plan on keeping up with the whole program?

]]> By: Culture Shiok! http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-272 Culture Shiok! Wed, 14 Mar 2007 14:47:11 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-272 I think this one will be easy for me I think this one will be easy for me

]]> By: Becoming An Outstanding Person | Temperance - Week 1 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-265 Becoming An Outstanding Person | Temperance - Week 1 of 12 | | Alex Shalman . com Tue, 13 Mar 2007 22:49:29 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-265 [...] Becoming An Outstanding Person | Silence - Week 2 of 12 | [...] [...] Becoming An Outstanding Person | Silence – Week 2 of 12 | [...]

]]> By: Self Improvement and Law of Attraction Link Love, Volume 5 : Today is that Day http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-234 Self Improvement and Law of Attraction Link Love, Volume 5 : Today is that Day Sat, 10 Mar 2007 05:53:13 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-234 [...] 4) Practical Personal Development - Becoming An Outstanding Person | Silence - Week 2 of 12 - Turns out that the phrase "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" has real merit, and Alex brings it home in a short, but informative manner. [...] [...] 4) Practical Personal Development – Becoming An Outstanding Person | Silence – Week 2 of 12 – Turns out that the phrase "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" has real merit, and Alex brings it home in a short, but informative manner. [...]

]]> By: Alex Shalman http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-207 Alex Shalman Wed, 07 Mar 2007 22:52:49 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-207 I must be developing psychic abilities, I knew you would say that Sania I must be developing psychic abilities, I knew you would say that Sania

]]> By: Sania Wyatt http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-206 Sania Wyatt Wed, 07 Mar 2007 20:51:05 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-206 I just can't imagine life without a bit of gossip. ;) I just can’t imagine life without a bit of gossip. ;)

]]> By: Alex Shalman http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-200 Alex Shalman Wed, 07 Mar 2007 16:38:24 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-200 Thanks Aaron... that's how it usually works... it's either towards or away, not to be confused with somewhere in the middle... because that's away too. Thanks Aaron… that’s how it usually works… it’s either towards or away, not to be confused with somewhere in the middle… because that’s away too.

]]> By: Aaron M. Potts http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-198 Aaron M. Potts Wed, 07 Mar 2007 04:14:37 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/03/06/becoming-an-outstanding-person-silence-week-2-of-12/#comment-198 Alex, Your "what is my intention" bit reminds me of a similar concept I use that accomplishes the same thing. Whenever I am having doubts about whether or not to say or do something, I simply ask myself: "Will this take me towards or away from my long-term goals?" If the answer is "away," then that thing does not get said or done! Alex,

Your “what is my intention” bit reminds me of a similar concept I use that accomplishes the same thing.

Whenever I am having doubts about whether or not to say or do something, I simply ask myself:

“Will this take me towards or away from my long-term goals?”

If the answer is “away,” then that thing does not get said or done!

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