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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Industry - Week 6 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Industry - Week 6 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:41:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Sincerity - Week 7 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Sincerity - Week 7 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:38:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Justice - Week 8 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/20/becoming-an-outstanding-person-resolution-week-4-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-6346</link>
		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Justice - Week 8 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:37:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Cleanliness - Week 10 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/20/becoming-an-outstanding-person-resolution-week-4-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-6336</link>
		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Cleanliness - Week 10 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Chastity - Week 12 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Chastity - Week 12 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 02:31:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Temperance - Week 1 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Temperance - Week 1 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2007 18:04:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Silence - Week 2 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Silence - Week 2 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2007 18:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Dave Olson</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/20/becoming-an-outstanding-person-resolution-week-4-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-659</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Olson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2007 17:22:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex, I know I&#039;m working backward on these steps but... :smile:
I think it&#039;s actually very important for people to take a day off every week. You need to recharge and refocus. Not a whole weekend but one day. I think for many people it requires just as much resolve to take that one day as it does to keep going without the break.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex, I know I&#8217;m working backward on these steps but&#8230; <img src='http://www.alexshalman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':smile:' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
I think it&#8217;s actually very important for people to take a day off every week. You need to recharge and refocus. Not a whole weekend but one day. I think for many people it requires just as much resolve to take that one day as it does to keep going without the break.</p>
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		<title>By: How To Become An Outstanding Person In Twelve Weeks &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/20/becoming-an-outstanding-person-resolution-week-4-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-647</link>
		<dc:creator>How To Become An Outstanding Person In Twelve Weeks &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2007 14:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Frugality - Week 5 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becoming An Outstanding Person &#124; Frugality - Week 5 of 12 &#124; &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2007 13:54:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/20/becoming-an-outstanding-person-resolution-week-4-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-434</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2007 02:48:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Welcome =)</description>
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		<title>By: domestika</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/03/20/becoming-an-outstanding-person-resolution-week-4-of-12/comment-page-1/#comment-432</link>
		<dc:creator>domestika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2007 00:58:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Back again - easy enough since I&#039;ve got you bookmarked now - to thank you for  visiting and giving me a wink. I laughed out loud when I read your comment...  a well-deserved little jab in the ribs, that, Alex! 
Cheers, Jen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Back again &#8211; easy enough since I&#8217;ve got you bookmarked now &#8211; to thank you for  visiting and giving me a wink. I laughed out loud when I read your comment&#8230;  a well-deserved little jab in the ribs, that, Alex!<br />
Cheers, Jen</p>
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		<title>By: domestika</title>
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		<dc:creator>domestika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2007 13:55:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Noooooo, you can&#039;t take the weekends off!  Being an Outstanding Person - or any other kind of person for that matter - is about *being* as opposed to *acting* a certain way, surely. So the values and virtues do need to be internalized... which, you&#039;re quite right, is done bybuilding new good habits. And you can&#039;t just pick that up on Monday morning, like going to confession and wiping the sin slate clean, or doing AA Mon-Fri and social-sipping on the weekend. It goes against all logic -  IMHO.

Good call, by the way, having Chastity come last on the list!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Noooooo, you can&#8217;t take the weekends off!  Being an Outstanding Person &#8211; or any other kind of person for that matter &#8211; is about *being* as opposed to *acting* a certain way, surely. So the values and virtues do need to be internalized&#8230; which, you&#8217;re quite right, is done bybuilding new good habits. And you can&#8217;t just pick that up on Monday morning, like going to confession and wiping the sin slate clean, or doing AA Mon-Fri and social-sipping on the weekend. It goes against all logic &#8211;  IMHO.</p>
<p>Good call, by the way, having Chastity come last on the list!</p>
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