Comments on: Why You Should Just Get Over It

By: Betty

Betty — Mon, 25 Aug 2008 10:01:24 +0000

I read your column & you are right, why give your power away! It took me many months to get over a jerk, finally I was there……. then one day, I recieved a message from his friend stating that he had died in a car accident and that before he died he told his friend to tell me that he was sorry and that maybe I was the best thing that happened to him. It turns I was the victim of a sick joke! I was furious so i messaged him wishing him a nice death! I guess thats the reaction he was looking for, I found myself at square one. But I now tell myself him being a jerk is his problem not mine! (oh, just for the record he is an Alex and looks somewhat like you… It’s freaky…but i won’t let it get to me)

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By: Eathan

Eathan — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 21:13:50 +0000

Great theory. I believe more people should live by this theory.

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25 Timeless Stress Reduction Tricks | Alex Shalman . com — Mon, 13 Aug 2007 16:40:32 +0000

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By: Michael

Michael — Sat, 31 Mar 2007 01:28:35 +0000

I’ve always had a tough time with this. I tend to get very frustrated with people after an extended period of time and from then on, I can be a real jerk. I guess there’s just something that can hold you back sometimes, but I’m sure we’d all be better off using your suggestions.

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What are Your Favorite Quotes? - Personal Development for Smart People Forums — Wed, 28 Mar 2007 21:16:59 +0000

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By: Dave Olson

Dave Olson — Mon, 26 Mar 2007 14:17:26 +0000

Great thoughts Alex. One practice that I started a few years ago was each morning I evaluate my emotions, allow myself to feel them and then move on. That way nothing tends to build up over time. Can’t find the netscape button, but I’ll get over it.