http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/07/18/how-can-i-get-through-to-you/ Practical Personal Development Sat, 31 Jul 2010 01:57:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/07/18/how-can-i-get-through-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-20672 elenelle Fri, 19 Oct 2007 14:38:52 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/07/18/how-can-i-get-through-to-you/#comment-20672 that is a very interesting subject..how can i get through him..OMG..is there any man who will treat girls fair.. that is a very interesting subject..how can i get through him..OMG..is there any man who will treat girls fair..

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]]> http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/07/18/how-can-i-get-through-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-12391 Alex Shalman Fri, 20 Jul 2007 11:51:04 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/07/18/how-can-i-get-through-to-you/#comment-12391 So you're saying motivate change by empowering instead of criticizing. I like that! So you’re saying motivate change by empowering instead of criticizing. I like that!

]]> http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/07/18/how-can-i-get-through-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-12320 Anna Thu, 19 Jul 2007 21:02:28 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/07/18/how-can-i-get-through-to-you/#comment-12320 good post.. relationships like any other good thing require work..people are always saying you shouldn't try to change someone or that if you love someone you accept them for who they are.. well i think that's partially true.. like u said.. relationships are the vehicle for growth.. so if you or your partner smokes for example, you can accept it and deal with it in the present but also work towards breakin the habit simultaneously.. i think the most important thing is to approach yourself/your partner in a supportive and kind manner that will motivate and inspire change rather than criticize/threaten/play games which is what MOST people do.. keep up the good work! good post.. relationships like any other good thing require work..people are always saying you shouldn’t try to change someone or that if you love someone you accept them for who they are.. well i think that’s partially true.. like u said.. relationships are the vehicle for growth.. so if you or your partner smokes for example, you can accept it and deal with it in the present but also work towards breakin the habit simultaneously.. i think the most important thing is to approach yourself/your partner in a supportive and kind manner that will motivate and inspire change rather than criticize/threaten/play games which is what MOST people do.. keep up the good work!

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