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	<title>Comments on: What do you get out of serving others?</title>
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		<title>By: Rodney Kay</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/08/10/what-do-you-get-out-of-serving-others/comment-page-1/#comment-42418</link>
		<dc:creator>Rodney Kay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 18:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I serve for a variety of reasons.  I am a computer geek who is currently between computer jobs.  I took a job with my church as the Assistant Children&#039;s Director for a variety of reasons:

1.  I am called to serve children by God - and my niche is tweens (4th, 5th, and 6th graders).
2.  My wife is the Children&#039;s Pastor, so I already had an &quot;in&quot;.
3.  I was serving before I had this job, but the extra money is always nice.
4.  It has taken me over 50 years to learn that the greatest good to myself is when I do good for others.

One of the big drawbacks to being on &quot;staff&quot; is that now when I walk up to a group of people at church, they instantly disburse because they feel I am &quot;recruiting&quot;.  I have not yet figured out why people feel the &quot;Children&#039;s MInistry&quot; is such a black hole that they will never get out from under.  I asked God for years, &quot;What would you have me do?&quot; to which I always received the answer, &quot;Moses was 80 before I told him.&quot;  This was not very satisfying, and at times was downright frustrating.  Then I agreed (under much duress, mind you) to go with my wife to teach a 4th/5th grade class one Sunday morning.  It was magic - these kids were sponges and I found myself fearful of what I would say because I could be impacting these kids for the rest of their lives.  Then I heard Jesus tell me, &quot;This is what I have for you - this is your lifework.&quot; and I knew I had come home.

Not everyone has that type of epiphany.  Not everyone has that type of revelation.

Okay, part of my &quot;job&quot; is to recruit - but these are &quot;my&quot; kids and I don&#039;t want warm bodies to keep them occupied.  I want people who are motivated and called to work with my kids before I turn them loose.  So how do I find people who are dedicated to &quot;service before self&quot;?  I am not sure I can.  Thanks for the opportunity to vent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I serve for a variety of reasons.  I am a computer geek who is currently between computer jobs.  I took a job with my church as the Assistant Children&#8217;s Director for a variety of reasons:</p>
<p>1.  I am called to serve children by God &#8211; and my niche is tweens (4th, 5th, and 6th graders).<br />
2.  My wife is the Children&#8217;s Pastor, so I already had an &#8220;in&#8221;.<br />
3.  I was serving before I had this job, but the extra money is always nice.<br />
4.  It has taken me over 50 years to learn that the greatest good to myself is when I do good for others.</p>
<p>One of the big drawbacks to being on &#8220;staff&#8221; is that now when I walk up to a group of people at church, they instantly disburse because they feel I am &#8220;recruiting&#8221;.  I have not yet figured out why people feel the &#8220;Children&#8217;s MInistry&#8221; is such a black hole that they will never get out from under.  I asked God for years, &#8220;What would you have me do?&#8221; to which I always received the answer, &#8220;Moses was 80 before I told him.&#8221;  This was not very satisfying, and at times was downright frustrating.  Then I agreed (under much duress, mind you) to go with my wife to teach a 4th/5th grade class one Sunday morning.  It was magic &#8211; these kids were sponges and I found myself fearful of what I would say because I could be impacting these kids for the rest of their lives.  Then I heard Jesus tell me, &#8220;This is what I have for you &#8211; this is your lifework.&#8221; and I knew I had come home.</p>
<p>Not everyone has that type of epiphany.  Not everyone has that type of revelation.</p>
<p>Okay, part of my &#8220;job&#8221; is to recruit &#8211; but these are &#8220;my&#8221; kids and I don&#8217;t want warm bodies to keep them occupied.  I want people who are motivated and called to work with my kids before I turn them loose.  So how do I find people who are dedicated to &#8220;service before self&#8221;?  I am not sure I can.  Thanks for the opportunity to vent.</p>
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		<title>By: Life Is Easy &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Never Lose A Great Idea Again</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/08/10/what-do-you-get-out-of-serving-others/comment-page-1/#comment-19959</link>
		<dc:creator>Life Is Easy &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Never Lose A Great Idea Again</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Oct 2007 01:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Sunday&#8217;s Speedlinking 9-16-07 &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/08/10/what-do-you-get-out-of-serving-others/comment-page-1/#comment-18580</link>
		<dc:creator>Sunday&#8217;s Speedlinking 9-16-07 &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Sep 2007 10:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Laura Young, from Dragon Slayer&#8217;s Guide To Life, asks Do You Really Want To Be Happy? Is that a trick question? Sure, I want to be happy! I think I know what Laura would answer to my question, what do you get out of serving others? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: You Can&#8217;t Make Them Laugh If You&#8217;re Crying &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/08/10/what-do-you-get-out-of-serving-others/comment-page-1/#comment-17424</link>
		<dc:creator>You Can&#8217;t Make Them Laugh If You&#8217;re Crying &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 14:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Never Lose A Great Idea Again &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/08/10/what-do-you-get-out-of-serving-others/comment-page-1/#comment-16227</link>
		<dc:creator>Never Lose A Great Idea Again &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2007 14:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: My Empowering Chime &#124; My Form Of Serving</title>
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		<dc:creator>My Empowering Chime &#124; My Form Of Serving</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Aug 2007 02:11:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] His key sentence : What do you get by serving others? [...]</description>
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