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	<title>Comments on: If You&#8217;re Respectful, You Can Dramatically Improve Your Relationships</title>
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		<title>By: prince owusu</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/11/if-youre-respectful-you-can-dramatically-improve-your-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-67912</link>
		<dc:creator>prince owusu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 14:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what u ur saying is true</description>
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		<title>By: Warning: These Self-Respect Techniques Will Change Your Life &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Warning: These Self-Respect Techniques Will Change Your Life &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Sep 2007 12:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] has started off as a single article on the benefits of respect, grew into a follow up with 10 ways to respect others, and now finds us here as a full blown [...]</description>
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		<title>By: 10 Ways To Show Respect &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>10 Ways To Show Respect &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 10:01:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] If You&#8217;re Respectful, You Can Dramatically Improve Your Relationships [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 13:59:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You bring up a valid point Maria. This is something I&#039;m planning on addressing in a future post. There are many ways to respectfully decline, or contradict someone.</description>
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		<title>By: Never the Same River Twice</title>
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		<dc:creator>Never the Same River Twice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 13:53:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These are good reminders, Alex, but I&#039;m wondering how you define respectful. Some people may be under the impression that being respectful is the same as being &quot;nice&quot; or letting others have what they want all the time. To me, being respectful involves acknowledging your fellow human being as having as much worth as you and acting accordingly. It doesn&#039;t mean losing your boundaries or agreeing with someone out of a sense of obligation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are good reminders, Alex, but I&#8217;m wondering how you define respectful. Some people may be under the impression that being respectful is the same as being &#8220;nice&#8221; or letting others have what they want all the time. To me, being respectful involves acknowledging your fellow human being as having as much worth as you and acting accordingly. It doesn&#8217;t mean losing your boundaries or agreeing with someone out of a sense of obligation.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Anna,

I&#039;m just giving some benefits as an extra incentive. You seem to be very respectful regardless =)</description>
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<p>I&#8217;m just giving some benefits as an extra incentive. You seem to be very respectful regardless =)</p>
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		<title>By: Anna Kravtsov</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna Kravtsov</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 00:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being respectful isn&#039;t something someone should be because of xyz and all the benefits of it.. you should just be respectful cause you have no reason NOT to be unless the person who you&#039;re interacting with is rude, disrespectful, or mean to you... if someone is treating you nicely, why would you be anything other than nice back.. you make a good point about being the bigger person when you encounter someone who ISNT respectful- that takes a lot of tact and a lot of self-control.. and that essentially is an area that needs work in most people.. especially in the job/school environment where it&#039;s not okay to lose your cool.. anyways. pretty good post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being respectful isn&#8217;t something someone should be because of xyz and all the benefits of it.. you should just be respectful cause you have no reason NOT to be unless the person who you&#8217;re interacting with is rude, disrespectful, or mean to you&#8230; if someone is treating you nicely, why would you be anything other than nice back.. you make a good point about being the bigger person when you encounter someone who ISNT respectful- that takes a lot of tact and a lot of self-control.. and that essentially is an area that needs work in most people.. especially in the job/school environment where it&#8217;s not okay to lose your cool.. anyways. pretty good post.</p>
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