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		<title>By: sandra</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/18/10-ways-to-show-respect/comment-page-1/#comment-136661</link>
		<dc:creator>sandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 21:27:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that&#039;s what we all need .this world has no respect for one another so please teach our children!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that&#8217;s what we all need .this world has no respect for one another so please teach our children!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Ron</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/18/10-ways-to-show-respect/comment-page-1/#comment-132165</link>
		<dc:creator>Ron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 09:14:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>finally I won`t get in trouble for not showing respect to adults</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>finally I won`t get in trouble for not showing respect to adults</p>
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		<title>By: Maria Brophy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria Brophy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 02:52:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Respect and consideration is for sure key to a happy union.  My husband and I have been together 13 years and are still very much in love.

I know how unusual that is, but when I think of the guys I dated before him, they were not thoughtful or considerate and I wasn&#039;t happy with them.

My husband is never late, and I know that if he says he&#039;s going to do something, he does.  I trust him and feel safe and secure with him.  And when he talks behind my back, it&#039;s him bragging about what a good cook I am or how I&#039;ve single-handedly made him successful.  And I also talk good about him behind his back and bring him coffee in bed most mornings, because it&#039;s important to him.  It makes him feel loved.

It&#039;s a mutual respect that keeps a relationship humming along nicely.  And it&#039;s putting forth the effort - because it is an effort to do things you might not feel like doing, but you do it for your partner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Respect and consideration is for sure key to a happy union.  My husband and I have been together 13 years and are still very much in love.</p>
<p>I know how unusual that is, but when I think of the guys I dated before him, they were not thoughtful or considerate and I wasn&#8217;t happy with them.</p>
<p>My husband is never late, and I know that if he says he&#8217;s going to do something, he does.  I trust him and feel safe and secure with him.  And when he talks behind my back, it&#8217;s him bragging about what a good cook I am or how I&#8217;ve single-handedly made him successful.  And I also talk good about him behind his back and bring him coffee in bed most mornings, because it&#8217;s important to him.  It makes him feel loved.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a mutual respect that keeps a relationship humming along nicely.  And it&#8217;s putting forth the effort &#8211; because it is an effort to do things you might not feel like doing, but you do it for your partner.</p>
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		<title>By: Jackie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jackie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 21:52:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe this is a great list.  What do you think it means for kids in school to be respectful?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe this is a great list.  What do you think it means for kids in school to be respectful?</p>
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		<title>By: liv</title>
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		<dc:creator>liv</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 22:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah thats exactly right. you should listen. what good is it to act dis-respectful. good job!*********************************************************</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah thats exactly right. you should listen. what good is it to act dis-respectful. good job!*********************************************************</p>
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		<title>By: bert:{D</title>
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		<dc:creator>bert:{D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Dec 2008 05:59:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i fine this very interesting mate.. i agree that with out respect their cant me no type of good relationship.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i fine this very interesting mate.. i agree that with out respect their cant me no type of good relationship.</p>
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		<title>By: ObsetsSep</title>
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		<dc:creator>ObsetsSep</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was exactly looking for something like that.  Are you interested in my   stingy  affections  I have a nice joke.   What farm animal is a cannibal? A Cow, it eats it&#039;s fodder!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was exactly looking for something like that.  Are you interested in my   stingy  affections  I have a nice joke.   What farm animal is a cannibal? A Cow, it eats it&#8217;s fodder!</p>
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		<title>By: Nerds Do It Better &#187; 37 Simple Things You Can Do to Be More Attractive to the Opposite Sex</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/18/10-ways-to-show-respect/comment-page-1/#comment-52623</link>
		<dc:creator>Nerds Do It Better &#187; 37 Simple Things You Can Do to Be More Attractive to the Opposite Sex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 16:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] respectful. Treat women with respect. Making derogatory statements or belittling her will most certainly turn her off. Instead, comment [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Warning: These Self-Respect Techniques Will Change Your Life &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/18/10-ways-to-show-respect/comment-page-1/#comment-19259</link>
		<dc:creator>Warning: These Self-Respect Techniques Will Change Your Life &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Sep 2007 12:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Nick Bakewell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nick Bakewell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2007 02:51:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I particularly like &quot;Be On Time&quot; - this is my biggest pet peeve, people who are late - especially those who don&#039;t apologize and have no excuse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I particularly like &#8220;Be On Time&#8221; &#8211; this is my biggest pet peeve, people who are late &#8211; especially those who don&#8217;t apologize and have no excuse.</p>
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		<title>By: Tina Fukuchi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina Fukuchi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 23:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These are great points.  Without respect, relationships are hard to develop and flourish.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are great points.  Without respect, relationships are hard to develop and flourish.</p>
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		<title>By: Dawud Miracle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dawud Miracle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 18:48:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post my friend. I agree with Aaron on respect being a core value. First we respect ourselves then we can respect others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post my friend. I agree with Aaron on respect being a core value. First we respect ourselves then we can respect others.</p>
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		<title>By: Jean Browman--Cheerful Monk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jean Browman--Cheerful Monk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 17:29:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Listen Harder.&quot;   How does that relate to &lt;a href=&quot;http://dmiracle.com/conversation/why-youll-never-get-out-of-the-box/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Dawud&lt;/a&gt; not feeling heard when he&#039;s talking about making our boxes bigger rather than being able to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/09/14/can-you-handle-yourself-outside-the-box/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;step out of them&lt;/a&gt;?  I personally like the visual metaphor of stepping out of the box to get some perspective, but Dawud has a point, too.  How much time are you willing to spend listening?  Is it worth pursuing?

Jean Browman
&lt;a href=&quot;http://cheerfulmonk.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Cheerful Monk&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://stresstopower.com/blog&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Transforming Stress Into Personal Power &lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Listen Harder.&#8221;   How does that relate to <a href="http://dmiracle.com/conversation/why-youll-never-get-out-of-the-box/" rel="nofollow">Dawud</a> not feeling heard when he&#8217;s talking about making our boxes bigger rather than being able to <a href="http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/09/14/can-you-handle-yourself-outside-the-box/" rel="nofollow">step out of them</a>?  I personally like the visual metaphor of stepping out of the box to get some perspective, but Dawud has a point, too.  How much time are you willing to spend listening?  Is it worth pursuing?</p>
<p>Jean Browman<br />
<a href="http://cheerfulmonk.com" rel="nofollow">Cheerful Monk</a><br />
<a href="http://stresstopower.com/blog" rel="nofollow">Transforming Stress Into Personal Power </a></p>
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		<dc:creator>???????????? ? ?????????? ???? ?? ??????? ????????? &#187; ??? ??????? ???, ????? ???? ???????? ???????? ??????! 10 ???????? ???????? ????????</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 17:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Aaron Potts - Today is that Day</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron Potts - Today is that Day</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 14:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex,

Great list! Respect is one of the core values that I both practice and demand from others, so I definitely resonate with a good list of how to do it right. :)

Thanks for sharing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex,</p>
<p>Great list! Respect is one of the core values that I both practice and demand from others, so I definitely resonate with a good list of how to do it right. <img src='http://www.alexshalman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks for sharing!</p>
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