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	<title>Comments on: 10 Ways To Show Respect</title>
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		<title>By: Nikki Jones</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/18/10-ways-to-show-respect/comment-page-1/#comment-166582</link>
		<dc:creator>Nikki Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Oct 2010 01:38:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i love this list it helped me out with my marriage we were on our way to divorce and we looking up marriage 101 and some how we ended up at10 ways to show respect</description>
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		<title>By: ashley</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/18/10-ways-to-show-respect/comment-page-1/#comment-163114</link>
		<dc:creator>ashley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2010 16:10:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>THANKS -MAHN you helped me with ma homework woohoo n i got a A+</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>THANKS -MAHN you helped me with ma homework woohoo n i got a A+</p>
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		<title>By: sandra</title>
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		<dc:creator>sandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 21:27:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that&#039;s what we all need .this world has no respect for one another so please teach our children!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that&#8217;s what we all need .this world has no respect for one another so please teach our children!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Ron</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/18/10-ways-to-show-respect/comment-page-1/#comment-132165</link>
		<dc:creator>Ron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 09:14:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>finally I won`t get in trouble for not showing respect to adults</description>
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		<title>By: Maria Brophy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria Brophy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 02:52:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Respect and consideration is for sure key to a happy union.  My husband and I have been together 13 years and are still very much in love.

I know how unusual that is, but when I think of the guys I dated before him, they were not thoughtful or considerate and I wasn&#039;t happy with them.

My husband is never late, and I know that if he says he&#039;s going to do something, he does.  I trust him and feel safe and secure with him.  And when he talks behind my back, it&#039;s him bragging about what a good cook I am or how I&#039;ve single-handedly made him successful.  And I also talk good about him behind his back and bring him coffee in bed most mornings, because it&#039;s important to him.  It makes him feel loved.

It&#039;s a mutual respect that keeps a relationship humming along nicely.  And it&#039;s putting forth the effort - because it is an effort to do things you might not feel like doing, but you do it for your partner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Respect and consideration is for sure key to a happy union.  My husband and I have been together 13 years and are still very much in love.</p>
<p>I know how unusual that is, but when I think of the guys I dated before him, they were not thoughtful or considerate and I wasn&#8217;t happy with them.</p>
<p>My husband is never late, and I know that if he says he&#8217;s going to do something, he does.  I trust him and feel safe and secure with him.  And when he talks behind my back, it&#8217;s him bragging about what a good cook I am or how I&#8217;ve single-handedly made him successful.  And I also talk good about him behind his back and bring him coffee in bed most mornings, because it&#8217;s important to him.  It makes him feel loved.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a mutual respect that keeps a relationship humming along nicely.  And it&#8217;s putting forth the effort &#8211; because it is an effort to do things you might not feel like doing, but you do it for your partner.</p>
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		<title>By: Jackie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jackie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 21:52:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe this is a great list.  What do you think it means for kids in school to be respectful?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe this is a great list.  What do you think it means for kids in school to be respectful?</p>
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		<title>By: liv</title>
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		<dc:creator>liv</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 22:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah thats exactly right. you should listen. what good is it to act dis-respectful. good job!*********************************************************</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah thats exactly right. you should listen. what good is it to act dis-respectful. good job!*********************************************************</p>
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		<title>By: bert:{D</title>
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		<dc:creator>bert:{D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Dec 2008 05:59:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i fine this very interesting mate.. i agree that with out respect their cant me no type of good relationship.</description>
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		<title>By: ObsetsSep</title>
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		<dc:creator>ObsetsSep</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was exactly looking for something like that.  Are you interested in my   stingy  affections  I have a nice joke.   What farm animal is a cannibal? A Cow, it eats it&#039;s fodder!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was exactly looking for something like that.  Are you interested in my   stingy  affections  I have a nice joke.   What farm animal is a cannibal? A Cow, it eats it&#8217;s fodder!</p>
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		<title>By: Nerds Do It Better &#187; 37 Simple Things You Can Do to Be More Attractive to the Opposite Sex</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/18/10-ways-to-show-respect/comment-page-1/#comment-52623</link>
		<dc:creator>Nerds Do It Better &#187; 37 Simple Things You Can Do to Be More Attractive to the Opposite Sex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 16:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] respectful. Treat women with respect. Making derogatory statements or belittling her will most certainly turn her off. Instead, comment [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Warning: These Self-Respect Techniques Will Change Your Life &#124; Alex Shalman . com</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/09/18/10-ways-to-show-respect/comment-page-1/#comment-19259</link>
		<dc:creator>Warning: These Self-Respect Techniques Will Change Your Life &#124; Alex Shalman . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Sep 2007 12:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 10 Ways To Show Respect [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Nick Bakewell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nick Bakewell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2007 02:51:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I particularly like &quot;Be On Time&quot; - this is my biggest pet peeve, people who are late - especially those who don&#039;t apologize and have no excuse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I particularly like &#8220;Be On Time&#8221; &#8211; this is my biggest pet peeve, people who are late &#8211; especially those who don&#8217;t apologize and have no excuse.</p>
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		<title>By: Tina Fukuchi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina Fukuchi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 23:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These are great points.  Without respect, relationships are hard to develop and flourish.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are great points.  Without respect, relationships are hard to develop and flourish.</p>
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		<title>By: Dawud Miracle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dawud Miracle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 18:48:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post my friend. I agree with Aaron on respect being a core value. First we respect ourselves then we can respect others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post my friend. I agree with Aaron on respect being a core value. First we respect ourselves then we can respect others.</p>
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		<title>By: Jean Browman--Cheerful Monk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jean Browman--Cheerful Monk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 17:29:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Listen Harder.&quot;   How does that relate to &lt;a href=&quot;http://dmiracle.com/conversation/why-youll-never-get-out-of-the-box/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Dawud&lt;/a&gt; not feeling heard when he&#039;s talking about making our boxes bigger rather than being able to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/09/14/can-you-handle-yourself-outside-the-box/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;step out of them&lt;/a&gt;?  I personally like the visual metaphor of stepping out of the box to get some perspective, but Dawud has a point, too.  How much time are you willing to spend listening?  Is it worth pursuing?

Jean Browman
&lt;a href=&quot;http://cheerfulmonk.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Cheerful Monk&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://stresstopower.com/blog&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Transforming Stress Into Personal Power &lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Listen Harder.&#8221;   How does that relate to <a href="http://dmiracle.com/conversation/why-youll-never-get-out-of-the-box/" rel="nofollow">Dawud</a> not feeling heard when he&#8217;s talking about making our boxes bigger rather than being able to <a href="http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2007/09/14/can-you-handle-yourself-outside-the-box/" rel="nofollow">step out of them</a>?  I personally like the visual metaphor of stepping out of the box to get some perspective, but Dawud has a point, too.  How much time are you willing to spend listening?  Is it worth pursuing?</p>
<p>Jean Browman<br />
<a href="http://cheerfulmonk.com" rel="nofollow">Cheerful Monk</a><br />
<a href="http://stresstopower.com/blog" rel="nofollow">Transforming Stress Into Personal Power </a></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 17:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Aaron Potts - Today is that Day</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron Potts - Today is that Day</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 14:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex,

Great list! Respect is one of the core values that I both practice and demand from others, so I definitely resonate with a good list of how to do it right. :)

Thanks for sharing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex,</p>
<p>Great list! Respect is one of the core values that I both practice and demand from others, so I definitely resonate with a good list of how to do it right. <img src='http://www.alexshalman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks for sharing!</p>
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