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	<title>Comments on: Having The Courage To Offend People</title>
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		<title>By: tyna</title>
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		<dc:creator>tyna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 May 2008 10:44:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of my favourite quotes is &quot;Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don&#039;t matter and those who matter don&#039;t mind.&quot;--Dr Seuss 
There is no way that everyone you meet will like you,so why not be yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my favourite quotes is &#8220;Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don&#8217;t matter and those who matter don&#8217;t mind.&#8221;&#8211;Dr Seuss<br />
There is no way that everyone you meet will like you,so why not be yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: Tina Su - Think Simple. Be Decisive.</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/10/16/having-the-courage-to-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-20679</link>
		<dc:creator>Tina Su - Think Simple. Be Decisive.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 16:06:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I posted a related article on &quot;How to Say No&quot; http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/4-tips-for-saying-no-take-control-of-your-time/

You might find it helpful. 

Best, 
Tina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I posted a related article on &#8220;How to Say No&#8221; <a href="http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/4-tips-for-saying-no-take-control-of-your-time/" rel="nofollow">http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/4-tips-for-saying-no-take-control-of-your-time/</a></p>
<p>You might find it helpful. </p>
<p>Best,<br />
Tina</p>
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		<title>By: Speaking Engagement in Orlando, FLA</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/10/16/having-the-courage-to-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-20629</link>
		<dc:creator>Speaking Engagement in Orlando, FLA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2007 19:48:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Alex Shalman is the new blogger friend who? recently accepted my offer? to guest blog for him once every two weeks.?  The first article was submitted just before I left for the speaking engagement a few days ago.? ? It was about having the courage to offend people.? ? Sound interesting??  Provocative perhaps??  Check it out here. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Alex Shalman is the new blogger friend who? recently accepted my offer? to guest blog for him once every two weeks.?  The first article was submitted just before I left for the speaking engagement a few days ago.? ? It was about having the courage to offend people.? ? Sound interesting??  Provocative perhaps??  Check it out here. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Stephen Hopson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephen Hopson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2007 00:06:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lawrence:

Thanks for stopping by Alex&#039;s blog and taking the time to write a comment about this article.  

You&#039;re right - not taking some kind of stand sort of weakens whatever platform you might have because people want to see you stand up for something.  It doesn&#039;t have to be something outrageous but at least something.

Yes, you are right - if we truly feel we acted in good faith, than that&#039;s all we can do.  We can sleep at night because of that.

Thanks for the comment.  I appreciate it.

Stephen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lawrence:</p>
<p>Thanks for stopping by Alex&#8217;s blog and taking the time to write a comment about this article.  </p>
<p>You&#8217;re right &#8211; not taking some kind of stand sort of weakens whatever platform you might have because people want to see you stand up for something.  It doesn&#8217;t have to be something outrageous but at least something.</p>
<p>Yes, you are right &#8211; if we truly feel we acted in good faith, than that&#8217;s all we can do.  We can sleep at night because of that.</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment.  I appreciate it.</p>
<p>Stephen</p>
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		<title>By: Lawrence Cheok</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lawrence Cheok</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2007 14:36:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Stephen, 

A friend once told me, &quot;Only a nobody has no criticism.&quot;

A mentor has taught me to take a stand to be a leader. I have also learned that not having a take produces lousy writing/blog post. 

I agree with you that others&#039; opinions is not within our control, but what&#039;s important is that we can touch our hearts and say we have acted in good faith. 

So let us take our stand, offend, and live tall. Kudos on this post. I really like it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Stephen, </p>
<p>A friend once told me, &#8220;Only a nobody has no criticism.&#8221;</p>
<p>A mentor has taught me to take a stand to be a leader. I have also learned that not having a take produces lousy writing/blog post. </p>
<p>I agree with you that others&#8217; opinions is not within our control, but what&#8217;s important is that we can touch our hearts and say we have acted in good faith. </p>
<p>So let us take our stand, offend, and live tall. Kudos on this post. I really like it!</p>
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