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	<title>Comments on: What is Relaxation?</title>
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		<title>By: Lola Fayemi</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/12/18/what-is-relaxation/comment-page-1/#comment-30754</link>
		<dc:creator>Lola Fayemi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2007 16:47:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is sooo true!  I used to have about 6 holidays a year and still didn&#039;t feel I had enough but nowadays I have more of a relaxed general state of mind so definitely do not NEED them as much, rather it&#039;d be nice to have them.  

In love, light and abundance x x x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is sooo true!  I used to have about 6 holidays a year and still didn&#8217;t feel I had enough but nowadays I have more of a relaxed general state of mind so definitely do not NEED them as much, rather it&#8217;d be nice to have them.  </p>
<p>In love, light and abundance x x x</p>
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		<title>By: Terry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Terry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 00:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I must agree with you on relaxation being a state of mind.  I can&#039;t tell you how many vacations I&#039;ve been on and been worried about what I need to do when I return or had a day off and worried about all that I need to finish.  

It&#039;s definitely a state of mind in my opinion, it&#039;s impossible to relax if your mind is racing and you&#039;re stressed about all the things that need to be tended to.

Thanks for the insight.

Terry

P.S. Make sure you also download your free 40-page report, which shows you how to transform stress into success. 

Here is the link:

http://www.emptyyourcup.com

(Take a look at the site. It&#039;s free.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must agree with you on relaxation being a state of mind.  I can&#8217;t tell you how many vacations I&#8217;ve been on and been worried about what I need to do when I return or had a day off and worried about all that I need to finish.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s definitely a state of mind in my opinion, it&#8217;s impossible to relax if your mind is racing and you&#8217;re stressed about all the things that need to be tended to.</p>
<p>Thanks for the insight.</p>
<p>Terry</p>
<p>P.S. Make sure you also download your free 40-page report, which shows you how to transform stress into success. </p>
<p>Here is the link:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.emptyyourcup.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.emptyyourcup.com</a></p>
<p>(Take a look at the site. It&#8217;s free.)</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2007 13:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Craig, I agree with you, it&#039;s awfully hard to be relaxed when you have fear on your mind. However, I think the &quot;only thing we have to fear is fear itself&quot; ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Craig, I agree with you, it&#8217;s awfully hard to be relaxed when you have fear on your mind. However, I think the &#8220;only thing we have to fear is fear itself&#8221; <img src='http://www.alexshalman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Al at 7P</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2007/12/18/what-is-relaxation/comment-page-1/#comment-30528</link>
		<dc:creator>Al at 7P</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2007 13:04:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice comment about going with the flow or against it.  Reminds me of an essay on &quot;This I Believe&quot; which also was read on the radio by NPR:

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=17225613&amp;ft=1&amp;f=4538138</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice comment about going with the flow or against it.  Reminds me of an essay on &#8220;This I Believe&#8221; which also was read on the radio by NPR:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=17225613&#038;ft=1&#038;f=4538138" rel="nofollow">http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=17225613&#038;ft=1&#038;f=4538138</a></p>
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		<title>By: Craig Harper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Harper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2007 11:25:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Toure right Alex. RELAXATION is actually a state of mind
I believe that relaxation is a direct result of dealing with our fears. Some of the biggies we need to deal with and don&#039;t are:

* Fear of failure.
* Fear of disappointing others.
* Fear of being physically hurt.
* Fear of embarrassment.
* Fear of death.
* Fear of being alone.
* Fear of being unattractive.
* Fear of commitment.
* Fear of being not needed or wanted.
* Fear of a loved one dying.

I can&#039;t tell you (specifically) how to deal with your (personal) fears... but I can tell you (from personal and professional experience) that facing up to, and overcoming your fears is one of the most liberating and fulfilling &#039;growth experiences&#039; you will ever have - aka &#039;RELAXATION OF THE MIND&#039;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Toure right Alex. RELAXATION is actually a state of mind<br />
I believe that relaxation is a direct result of dealing with our fears. Some of the biggies we need to deal with and don&#8217;t are:</p>
<p>* Fear of failure.<br />
* Fear of disappointing others.<br />
* Fear of being physically hurt.<br />
* Fear of embarrassment.<br />
* Fear of death.<br />
* Fear of being alone.<br />
* Fear of being unattractive.<br />
* Fear of commitment.<br />
* Fear of being not needed or wanted.<br />
* Fear of a loved one dying.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t tell you (specifically) how to deal with your (personal) fears&#8230; but I can tell you (from personal and professional experience) that facing up to, and overcoming your fears is one of the most liberating and fulfilling &#8216;growth experiences&#8217; you will ever have &#8211; aka &#8216;RELAXATION OF THE MIND&#8217;.</p>
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		<title>By: Gamy Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gamy Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2007 10:55:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Alex

I truly agree, no vacation can compared to having a relaxed state of mind and
not worrying. Well said.

Warmly
Gamy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Alex</p>
<p>I truly agree, no vacation can compared to having a relaxed state of mind and<br />
not worrying. Well said.</p>
<p>Warmly<br />
Gamy</p>
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