Comments on: Create A Delicious Relationship In 12 Minutes http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/ Practical Personal Development Sat, 31 Jul 2010 01:57:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: How To Get A Girlfriend (Part 2) | Work at Home Money Making Tips http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-59104 How To Get A Girlfriend (Part 2) | Work at Home Money Making Tips Sat, 12 Jul 2008 14:26:40 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-59104 [...] whatever you do with this information is up to you), rather it is to support you in finding a delicious relationship. A great relationship will not be built on a foundation of [...] [...] whatever you do with this information is up to you), rather it is to support you in finding a delicious relationship. A great relationship will not be built on a foundation of [...]

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]]> By: Puneet http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-55551 Puneet Thu, 19 Jun 2008 11:24:17 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-55551 Good tips ... landed here from chow's blog ... and its awesome time to come here and read this article .. Good Luck frd Good tips … landed here from chow’s blog … and its awesome time to come here and read this article .. Good Luck frd

]]> By: How To Get A Girlfriend (Part 2) | John Chow dot Com http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-55500 How To Get A Girlfriend (Part 2) | John Chow dot Com Thu, 19 Jun 2008 04:14:05 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-55500 [...] whatever you do with this information is up to you), rather it is to support you in finding a delicious relationship. A great relationship will not be built on a foundation of [...] [...] whatever you do with this information is up to you), rather it is to support you in finding a delicious relationship. A great relationship will not be built on a foundation of [...]

]]> By: Alex Shalman http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-48503 Alex Shalman Wed, 30 Apr 2008 16:30:11 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-48503 Hmmm I'm glad that you like it, since you helped me write it =) Hmmm I’m glad that you like it, since you helped me write it =)

]]> By: Marina http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-48369 Marina Tue, 29 Apr 2008 22:26:59 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-48369 This is definitely one of the most wonderful articles you have ever written. I reread it today and I can't help but tell u: Alex, you are amazing! This is definitely one of the most wonderful articles you have ever written. I reread it today and I can’t help but tell u: Alex, you are amazing!

]]> By: Bryan http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-42425 Bryan Thu, 20 Mar 2008 21:24:07 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-42425 Hey Stanley, Could you please post a link to your blog so I can see what you're referring about? Thank you sir. Hey Stanley,
Could you please post a link to your blog so I can see what you’re referring about? Thank you sir.

]]> By: Mr Positioning’s Top Picks - Week of March 14, 2008 http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41890 Mr Positioning’s Top Picks - Week of March 14, 2008 Fri, 14 Mar 2008 21:48:05 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41890 [...] Create A Delicious Relationship In 12 Minutes [...] [...] Create A Delicious Relationship In 12 Minutes [...]

]]> By: Mr Positioning (Stanley Bronstein) http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41861 Mr Positioning (Stanley Bronstein) Fri, 14 Mar 2008 15:58:07 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41861 The idea for the "golden rule in reverse" came from an interview I did with a gentleman named Lynn May from Albuquerque, New Mexico. Lynn is a highly successful individual who heads up a national non-profit association that represents radiologic technologists. Lynn worked in 4 different presidential administrations and he's really an incredible guy. I actually have a video of the interview that can be found by going to my blog and searching for the phrase "Lynn May". It's well worth listening too. Take care Mr Positioning (Stanley F. Bronstein, Atty, CPA, Author and Professional Speaker) The idea for the “golden rule in reverse” came from an interview I did with a gentleman named Lynn May from Albuquerque, New Mexico.

Lynn is a highly successful individual who heads up a national non-profit association that represents radiologic technologists.

Lynn worked in 4 different presidential administrations and he’s really an incredible guy.

I actually have a video of the interview that can be found by going to my blog and searching for the phrase “Lynn May”.

It’s well worth listening too.

Take care

Mr Positioning (Stanley F. Bronstein, Atty, CPA, Author and Professional Speaker)

]]> By: Alex Shalman http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41849 Alex Shalman Fri, 14 Mar 2008 14:29:43 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41849 Hi Stanley, Long time no chat my friend. I am going to add something to you application of the reverse Golden Rule. That is instead of treating people the way you want to be treated to treat them they way they want to be treated. I think for all practical purposes this works out better. What do you think? Hi Stanley,

Long time no chat my friend. I am going to add something to you application of the reverse Golden Rule. That is instead of treating people the way you want to be treated to treat them they way they want to be treated. I think for all practical purposes this works out better. What do you think?

]]> By: Mr Positioning (Stanley Bronstein) http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41848 Mr Positioning (Stanley Bronstein) Fri, 14 Mar 2008 14:22:10 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41848 The most successful relationships are the ones where we focus on what it is that we can give, not on what we are going to receive. I have found over the years, that in virtually any relationship, the more I give, the more I get back. It's sort of the application of the golden rule, but in reverse. Instead of treating others as you would have them treat you (with the expectation they will do so), treat them the way you would want to be treated and give up any expectation of getting anything in return. That way, you will NEVER be disappointed. One of the things I've realized during my long professional career is that the universe is a funny thing. For example, I have one attorney to whom I have referred probably 30 clients. He has never once sent me any clients in return, BUT that's because he's not in a position to do so. HOWEVER, there are many other people who have sent me numerous clients . . . It all balances out. Remember, the universe craves balance . . . Take care Mr Positioning (Stanley F. Bronstein, Atty, CPA, Author and Professional Speaker) The most successful relationships are the ones where we focus on what it is that we can give, not on what we are going to receive.

I have found over the years, that in virtually any relationship, the more I give, the more I get back. It’s sort of the application of the golden rule, but in reverse. Instead of treating others as you would have them treat you (with the expectation they will do so), treat them the way you would want to be treated and give up any expectation of getting anything in return. That way, you will NEVER be disappointed.

One of the things I’ve realized during my long professional career is that the universe is a funny thing. For example, I have one attorney to whom I have referred probably 30 clients. He has never once sent me any clients in return, BUT that’s because he’s not in a position to do so. HOWEVER, there are many other people who have sent me numerous clients . . . It all balances out. Remember, the universe craves balance . . .

Take care

Mr Positioning (Stanley F. Bronstein, Atty, CPA, Author and Professional Speaker)

]]> By: Alex Shalman http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41760 Alex Shalman Thu, 13 Mar 2008 12:39:10 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41760 When you say teen forums, what do you mean? When you say teen forums, what do you mean?

]]> By: Mayank Rocks http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41734 Mayank Rocks Thu, 13 Mar 2008 04:45:02 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41734 I totally agree with you. I know this most as I see plenty of such people at my teen forums I totally agree with you. I know this most as I see plenty of such people at my teen forums

]]> By: wisdom http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41730 wisdom Thu, 13 Mar 2008 03:39:25 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41730 Good post. The problem is that many just aren't ready to be in a relationship or have had many bad relationships in the past. Good post. The problem is that many just aren’t ready to be in a relationship or have had many bad relationships in the past.

]]> By: Flimjo http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41705 Flimjo Wed, 12 Mar 2008 20:24:55 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41705 I'm amazed no one else has commented on this post today. I found it real helpful and informative. A lot of people either have relationships fail or don't have relationships at all. These tips are great if you want to establish and maintain a healthy, loving relationship. I’m amazed no one else has commented on this post today. I found it real helpful and informative. A lot of people either have relationships fail or don’t have relationships at all. These tips are great if you want to establish and maintain a healthy, loving relationship.

]]> By: Flimjo http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41687 Flimjo Wed, 12 Mar 2008 15:32:02 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41687 By far, listening is the most important way to enhance and maintain any relationship. That is where I usually get in trouble: by not listening. When you don't listen to what someone else is saying, you make them feel like they're not important or interesting. Simply listening to someone else makes that person feel special. By far, listening is the most important way to enhance and maintain any relationship. That is where I usually get in trouble: by not listening. When you don’t listen to what someone else is saying, you make them feel like they’re not important or interesting. Simply listening to someone else makes that person feel special.

]]> By: Non-Negotiables In Relatoinships: Your Input - Personal Development for Smart People Forums http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41680 Non-Negotiables In Relatoinships: Your Input - Personal Development for Smart People Forums Wed, 12 Mar 2008 13:31:00 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41680 [...] in 12 Minutes By the way, another relationship article you guys will like for sure. Create a Delicious Relationship in 12 Minutes __________________ Alex Shalman . com - Practical Personal [...] [...] in 12 Minutes By the way, another relationship article you guys will like for sure. Create a Delicious Relationship in 12 Minutes __________________ Alex Shalman . com – Practical Personal [...]

]]> By: Mayank Rocks http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/comment-page-1/#comment-41678 Mayank Rocks Wed, 12 Mar 2008 13:22:08 +0000 http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/12/create-a-delicious-relationship-in-12-minutes/#comment-41678 Nice tips there. Nice tips there.

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