Those comments will keep coming, WITHOUT the mistakes.

Take care

Mr Positioning (Stanley F. Bronstein, Atty, CPA, Author and Professional Speaker)

That is something I “attempt” to constantly practice. Successful people see things that other people do not see and act in ways that unsuccessful people are not willing to do. It’s just that simple. SO, if you want to be successful, you should actually “think” about what is going on at every moment (or at least as often as possible). That’s where your knowledge comes in.

Evaluation is the key. The better we become at evaluating, the more successful (and happy) we will be.

Take care

Mr Positioning (Stanley F. Bronstein, Atty, CPA, Author and Professional Speaker)

Please know this is NOT intended to be mean-spirited. I grew up saying this word (my mother uses it to this day!) and it wasn’t until I was an adult and then some that someone pointed out that I was using a poorly formed and self-contradictory word. Oops!

Another great tool that I use all the time, that my mentor David Neagle taught to me is this:

Whenever something “undesirable” is happening, literally take a step to the side and say to yourself: “Isn’t this interesting.”

When use this technique, it puts me an an objective frame of mind, and I can look at the situation more closely as an “outsider”, which allows me to breathe, and observe what the greater lesson is.

I decide to take responsibility for EVERYTHING that happens in my life – good, bad or indifferent – and recognize that whatever happens from one day to the next I create for my own growth.

Anyway, not to ramble on – I enjoyed this post, and I thank you.

With blessings,

Erin.

Erin Thoms Melnick
Modern & Millions
http://www.crosscountrytour.com

“By separating these tasks, and not having them depend on each other, I am able to work on each one individually.”

I’ve never thought of this one really.. Thanks for this Dmitry! I’m gonna use this tactic! =)

Oh Alex! The unexpected book came in the mail today! THANK YOU SO MUCH! It’s been a long time since I last smelled a fresh new book!

To CANI,

SaiF
The World’s First Teen
Personal Development Video Blogger

Nice post. So true!

Bringing the focus back to understanding and accepting that we create our reality moment by the beliefs, attitudes and assumptions we project into our perceptions. Being able to separate the facts (of what is) from the storie (and dramas) we create in our heads is key to being the victim of our circumstance or the hero of our own life story. I wrote about storytelling and drama in a recent blog post: http://www.powerfull-living.biz/blog/2008/03/06/stories-dramas-what-are-you-manifesting/

Cheers,
Lorraine

http://www.powerfull-living.biz

Well, I tend to look at this question “How can I make it better?” as a positive question
Cos in everything that we do, there is always room for improvement, and not necessary
that it has to be something wrong.

Cheers

Gamy

I like this one:
5. Give up “there is something wrong here”

Anytime “there is something wrong here” pops up in your mind, throw it out. Perceive things as, ‘this is what’s going on’ instead of associating wrongness to it.

You have made a good point here.
I would like to add this:
We tend to question ourselves more then we question others sometimes. Learn to ask constructive questions instead of just questioning ourselves what is wrong. Perhaps a better question is
“Is there any lessons to learn here?” or “How can I make it better?”

Blessings
Gamy