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		<title>By: What to Do When Your Spouse Gains Weight: 100 Tips and Resources &#124; Nerds Do It Better</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/05/05/7-steps-to-get-fit-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-92689</link>
		<dc:creator>What to Do When Your Spouse Gains Weight: 100 Tips and Resources &#124; Nerds Do It Better</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2008 15:25:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 7 Steps to Get Fit With Your Spouse: These seven steps can help point you towards a fit and happy future with your spouse. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/05/05/7-steps-to-get-fit-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-50708</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 04:02:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This just reminded me that I wanted to take Salsa lessons! Good call =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This just reminded me that I wanted to take Salsa lessons! Good call =)</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/05/05/7-steps-to-get-fit-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-50707</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 04:01:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Gary,

On one hand I think Nelson Mandela was an extraordinary person, so it&#039;s quite possible that he was the one in the group bringing the group average up. On the other hand (and I still think number one is true) he was in the company of some other powerful leaders. I was just reading up on him for an example I wanted to use in another article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Gary,</p>
<p>On one hand I think Nelson Mandela was an extraordinary person, so it&#8217;s quite possible that he was the one in the group bringing the group average up. On the other hand (and I still think number one is true) he was in the company of some other powerful leaders. I was just reading up on him for an example I wanted to use in another article.</p>
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		<title>By: Awareness</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/05/05/7-steps-to-get-fit-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-49748</link>
		<dc:creator>Awareness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 15:20:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How do we know that we are the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with?  Was Nelson Mandela the average of his fellow prisoners?  Was Christ the average of his apostles?  Okay, I&#039;m being extreme about these examples.  I also get the point about influence.  It is well made.  

Gary</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How do we know that we are the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with?  Was Nelson Mandela the average of his fellow prisoners?  Was Christ the average of his apostles?  Okay, I&#8217;m being extreme about these examples.  I also get the point about influence.  It is well made.  </p>
<p>Gary</p>
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		<title>By: SaiF</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/05/05/7-steps-to-get-fit-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-49732</link>
		<dc:creator>SaiF</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 12:33:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Alex,

I don&#039;t have a spouse or a girlfriend but I think we can apply some of these great tips to an relationship!

Especially friends and cousins (of course not the sleeping together bit lol)

I personally think the motivating part is superb for any relationship!

GOOD LUCK FOR YOUR FINALS BRO!

Sincerely,

SaiF
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.asksaiful.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The World&#039;s First Teen
Personal Development Video Blogger&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Alex,</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have a spouse or a girlfriend but I think we can apply some of these great tips to an relationship!</p>
<p>Especially friends and cousins (of course not the sleeping together bit lol)</p>
<p>I personally think the motivating part is superb for any relationship!</p>
<p>GOOD LUCK FOR YOUR FINALS BRO!</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>SaiF<br />
<a href="http://www.asksaiful.com" rel="nofollow">The World&#8217;s First Teen<br />
Personal Development Video Blogger</a></p>
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		<title>By: Anthony</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anthony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 20:47:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great advice.  Of course, the most important part is starting.  As far as walking goes, I recommend starting with the &quot;10 House Challenge&quot; http://www.myweightloss.cc/2008/04/30/take-the-10-house-weight-loss-challenge/.  My wife and I started last week and have only missed a day.  I think I am down at least a pound too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great advice.  Of course, the most important part is starting.  As far as walking goes, I recommend starting with the &#8220;10 House Challenge&#8221; <a href="http://www.myweightloss.cc/2008/04/30/take-the-10-house-weight-loss-challenge/" rel="nofollow">http://www.myweightloss.cc/2008/04/30/take-the-10-house-weight-loss-challenge/</a>.  My wife and I started last week and have only missed a day.  I think I am down at least a pound too.</p>
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		<title>By: Flimjo</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/05/05/7-steps-to-get-fit-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-49574</link>
		<dc:creator>Flimjo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 19:16:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s a very good point.  Nothing like a one-on-one foot race.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a very good point.  Nothing like a one-on-one foot race.</p>
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		<title>By: GreatManagement</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/05/05/7-steps-to-get-fit-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-49550</link>
		<dc:creator>GreatManagement</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 15:38:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex,

Your latest comment reminded me - My wife and I recently joined a Latin Dance school as well (I forgot! Hope my sife isn&#039;t reading).

Andrew</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex,</p>
<p>Your latest comment reminded me &#8211; My wife and I recently joined a Latin Dance school as well (I forgot! Hope my sife isn&#8217;t reading).</p>
<p>Andrew</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Shalman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Shalman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 13:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would think dance dance revolution would have bigger health benefits! =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would think dance dance revolution would have bigger health benefits! =)</p>
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		<title>By: GreatManagement</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/05/05/7-steps-to-get-fit-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-49528</link>
		<dc:creator>GreatManagement</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 13:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Get yourselves a Wii and play the games together!

Andrew</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Get yourselves a Wii and play the games together!</p>
<p>Andrew</p>
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		<title>By: Suzie Cheel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suzie Cheel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 01:57:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice one Alex, 
good to reflect on those points and realise I have a wonderful relationship and each morning we beack walk for 40 mins, a great time and way to start the day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice one Alex,<br />
good to reflect on those points and realise I have a wonderful relationship and each morning we beack walk for 40 mins, a great time and way to start the day.</p>
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		<title>By: MrAchievement.com (Stanley Bronstein)</title>
		<link>http://www.alexshalman.com/2008/05/05/7-steps-to-get-fit-with-your-spouse/comment-page-1/#comment-49354</link>
		<dc:creator>MrAchievement.com (Stanley Bronstein)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 21:47:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>After having been married for nearly 8 years, the ONE step I know of to getting things straightened out with your spouse is:

1)  BOTH OF YOU DECIDING THAT YOU WANT TO WORK TOGETHER TO GET THINGS STRAIGHTENED OUT.

You can have all of the best intentions, but unless your spouse wants to work with you, those intentions don&#039;t mean squat . . .

Just my 2¢

MrAchievement
Stanley Bronstein
Attorney, CPA, Author, Blogger &amp; Professional Motivational Speaker</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After having been married for nearly 8 years, the ONE step I know of to getting things straightened out with your spouse is:</p>
<p>1)  BOTH OF YOU DECIDING THAT YOU WANT TO WORK TOGETHER TO GET THINGS STRAIGHTENED OUT.</p>
<p>You can have all of the best intentions, but unless your spouse wants to work with you, those intentions don&#8217;t mean squat . . .</p>
<p>Just my 2¢</p>
<p>MrAchievement<br />
Stanley Bronstein<br />
Attorney, CPA, Author, Blogger &amp; Professional Motivational Speaker</p>
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		<title>By: Avani</title>
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		<dc:creator>Avani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 21:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great points Alex. For me it&#039;s sleeping together that has worked the best. If left to me, I would stay awake till my eyes start dropping. This means sleeping at odd hours or not sleeping at all. Following my husband&#039;s waking and sleeping timing has made a great deal of difference. Not only because I get good sleep. But also because it means lesser number of tv hours, late night snacking etc etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great points Alex. For me it&#8217;s sleeping together that has worked the best. If left to me, I would stay awake till my eyes start dropping. This means sleeping at odd hours or not sleeping at all. Following my husband&#8217;s waking and sleeping timing has made a great deal of difference. Not only because I get good sleep. But also because it means lesser number of tv hours, late night snacking etc etc.</p>
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		<title>By: Maria - Never the Same River Twice</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria - Never the Same River Twice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 21:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Depending on the couple, a little friendly competition helps from time to time. You could place a wager on who will go the longest without eating junk food, or the most days in a row exercising, or another healthy goal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Depending on the couple, a little friendly competition helps from time to time. You could place a wager on who will go the longest without eating junk food, or the most days in a row exercising, or another healthy goal.</p>
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		<title>By: Flimjo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Flimjo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 17:20:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good points, Alex.  I find that exercising and participating in healthy activities with my wife feels great because it feels like we&#039;re a team.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good points, Alex.  I find that exercising and participating in healthy activities with my wife feels great because it feels like we&#8217;re a team.</p>
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