Comments on: 7 Vital Actions When Recovering from a Breakup

By: Brandon Merhout

Brandon Merhout — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 01:44:04 +0000

Read books! It’s a great way to keep your mind occupied, as you move through the pain … and begin the healing process.

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Post-Breakup Action Plan! — Sat, 09 Aug 2008 22:33:19 +0000

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By: cate

cate — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 06:15:07 +0000

after the break up, it’s good to try and fall in love with yourself. It’s hard not to mope around, but if you think that’s going to help you get through the break up, no way. At least if you fall in love with yourself, make yourself look better for YOURself, when he does see you in a mall or something, he’ll start thinking if the breakup was indeed the right thing to do.

Good list by the way

By: Vikki Majors

Vikki Majors — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 10:27:58 +0000

Another idea would be to get involved in an extra-curricular activity. Considering that one just was accustomed to spending time with their partner, and now since that partner is out of their daily life, one has more time on their hands. PLUS, something different in one’s schedule can be exciting and something to look forward to, especially after a break-up. Any activity such as joining a club, a community sport, a church group, taking a class or a lesson of some sort, volunteering time in a non-profit organization, etc.

By: James @ Organize IT

James @ Organize IT — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 16:35:01 +0000

Don’t beat yourself up for feeling upset and miserable. It’s natural to not want to feel that way and to just get on with life but it’s equally natural to actually feel bad at the end of a relationship. Let your emotions take their course.

Can’t emphasize the importance of the sixth point about learning lessons too.

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By: Sara at On Simplicity

Sara at On Simplicity — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 04:56:24 +0000

I full-on agree with these, but I’d start off letting yourself have a few days to just be upset. Trying to get over a breakup without going through the hurt has never worked for me. Usually, after crying and being angry for a few days, I’d be sick of it and ready to be happy and let it go.

By: Avani-Mehta

Avani-Mehta — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 18:20:03 +0000

Don’t get into another relationship for a while. Chances are high of that being a rebound.