Comments on: 90 Second Rule of Relationships

By: shamim

shamim — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 08:34:51 +0000

failure is the pillar of success! shit!
i’ve tried and failed. at 6 o’clock in the evenin i get struck to boredom! no girlfriend no life. i think my life sucks….

By: from the Spiritual Zen « LadyJz Blog

from the Spiritual Zen « LadyJz Blog — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 23:48:02 +0000

[...] first learned about this from Alex Shalman’s blog post, 90 Second Rule of Relationships. Alex looks at the 90 Second rule from more of a scientific approach, saying “This is my take on [...]

By: from the Spiritual Zen

from the Spiritual Zen — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 23:47:23 +0000

By: Enhance Relationships With the 90 Second Rule | Spiritual Zen

Enhance Relationships With the 90 Second Rule | Spiritual Zen — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:15:40 +0000

By: » The Importance of Greeting Others in the First 90-Seconds

» The Importance of Greeting Others in the First 90-Seconds — Mon, 25 May 2009 20:52:38 +0000

[...] like to thank Alex Shalman for introducing me to Fannin and the 90-Second Rule. Share and [...]

By: Anna

Anna — Sat, 23 May 2009 18:17:07 +0000

LOL i will attack them with positive energy .. and I’ve also developed my own 90second goodbye rule.. which states that whenever you leave someone you leave them on good terms just as when you greet them hello.

By: Adam

Adam — Sat, 23 May 2009 05:19:02 +0000

This has a been a great eye-opener so thanks for the heads-up!

By: Alex Shalman

Alex Shalman — Fri, 22 May 2009 12:59:57 +0000

@Anna… that just sounded really creepy. I can just see you getting super hyper and attacking people for 90 seconds at a time. Haha, JK. I hope dental school is going well, and you’re enjoying rotations!

By: Anna

Anna — Fri, 22 May 2009 12:28:34 +0000

this is so true.. i’m gonna work extra hard at making those 90seconds a positive experience everytime i encounter ANYONE

By: Anthony

Anthony — Fri, 22 May 2009 06:27:41 +0000

Nice vid. Great insights. I’ll be applying that rule from now on.

By: Kim

Kim — Thu, 21 May 2009 19:30:52 +0000

Ahhh, thanks for this article. I’ve been a terrible greeter when I come home. More times than not, I’m grouchy, tired, and impatient from sitting in traffic.

By: Lisis

Lisis — Thu, 21 May 2009 19:06:21 +0000

Well, Alex… I’ll have to wait till after my son’s bedtime to find out about that, and get back to you. On second thought… probably won’t brief you on that.

By: Alex Shalman

Alex Shalman — Thu, 21 May 2009 12:13:40 +0000

@Lisis Nice! Hopefully he has more than 90 seconds of fame for you after being gone for 3 days =)

By: Lisis

Lisis — Thu, 21 May 2009 12:11:33 +0000

Hey, Alex! I have to tell you I was a little skeptical about how important those initial moments could possibly be… until I watched the video. I recognized too many familiar scenes: the blackberry, the bills, the kids… I’m glad you included it.

Well, my hubby’s getting back from a 3 day trip to Idaho today. I guess I’d best start preparing for my 90 seconds of fame.

By: Laurie | Express Yourself to Success

Laurie | Express Yourself to Success — Wed, 20 May 2009 19:28:04 +0000

Great post.
While greeting people has always been important to me, I never thought of it as specifically as the 90-second rule. These few seconds are precious and they have a big impact on the hours and days ahead.

Thanks for sharing this information!

By: Lauren

Lauren — Wed, 20 May 2009 15:51:41 +0000

I find this to be so fascinating, mainly because I never thought of how important that time was before. I could most use the 90 second rule with my boyfriend. He is the person I see the most of since we live together. I am typically on my laptop working or checking my blogs when he gets home, so I definitely need to put him first (if not for that first 90 seconds)