Alex Shalman.comPractical Personal Development

Self-esteem is NOT what you think. It’s not really the ‘I feel good about myself’ emotion. If you would have asked me a year ago, I wouldn’t have guessed that such interesting topics would be taught in dental school, but here I am learning about them.
My favorite class in school right now is Dentist-Patient-Relationship. Here [...]

Long story short, I slept in my trunk so I wouldn’t have to drive under the influence of alcohol. What follows is the full story, details, and reason behind this “strangeness.”
I drove to a BBQ on Friday evening, where I met up with Marina and some of our friends. There was a bit of beer [...]

Editor’s Note: This article is written by the brilliant, amazing, and selfless Marina Tsipenyuk.
Those who have ever valued liberty for its own sake believed that to be free to choose, and not to be chosen for, is an unalienable ingredient in what makes human beings human. ~Isaiah Berlin
Though I generally procrastinate when it comes to reading long [...]

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This is a guest post by Sid Savara.
“With ordinary talent and extraordinary perseverance, all things are attainable.”  ~Thomas Foxwell Buxton
Perseverance – to persist in a state, enterprise, or undertaking in spite of counterinfluences, opposition, or discouragement
As has been written previously here in Failure plus Persistence equals [...]

Editor’s Note: This article is written by the brilliant, amazing, and true Marina Tsipenyuk.
It seems that we are always searching for what is sensible, logical, and politically correct. The older we become, the more such formalities encompass our thoughts and, surely, become us—our identities and traits are unshakable, arguably as they were, have been, and [...]

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Obedience — Willingness to obey, to be controlled when necessary, to carry out orders.
“There is no shame in taking orders from those who themselves have learned to obey.”
~William Edward Forster
There exists a special dynamic between a master-servant, leader-follower, and dominant-submissive. In order to be effective at wielding [...]

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Love (noun) – A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
Love (verb) – To give of oneself, and ones time, energy, and resources fully to another person [...]

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Just getting back from Israel I’ve learned some incredible lessons from some of the worlds most renowned Rabbis. Unlike the birthright trip to Israel that I went on last year, this wasn’t about sight-seeing, it was about having a spiritual experience and acquiring ancient wisdom.
Honesty — Truthful; [...]

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Editor’s note: This is a guest post by Lewis Howes.
“It takes more courage to reveal insecurities than to hide them, more strength to relate to people than to dominate them, more ‘manhood’ to abide by thought-out principles rather than blind reflex. Toughness is in the soul [...]

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Editor’s Note: This is a guest post by Marina Tsipenyuk.
“Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow – that is patience.”
Patience – an ability or willingness to suppress restlessness or annoyance when confronted with [...]